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Great Question Braveheart. Thank You for sharing your question. I am sorry to hear that are having compatibility issues with someone You like. I understand how hard it is to have a crush on a person, but they don't feel the same way as you.  I don't want to sound harsh, but I do want you to ask yourself: is it fair to yourself to spend your time crushing on someone that doesn't feel the same way you do? You are worthy of a healthy monogamous (one-on-one) relationship. So to date someone that doeskin feel the way that you do, can land you in a situation where you are in an imbalanced, non trustworthy unhealthy relationship. You can like a person, and they might not feel the same way about you because each of you have a set of values, or things that are considered important to you.  Additionally, what you think is right, or good, may be different from that of the person whom you are attracted to.  We can be attracted to many things about someone, but each one of us have things that we are attracted to that are more important than what other people may think. For example, you said, that you feel attracted to this person based off "personality, spunk, height, smile, eyes, etc" so my question is have you ever thought that these may not be the things that HE VALUES? He might be might be into those things as well about you, but he might be more attracted to ladies who are into sports, or into art, or likes video games, talking about future career goals etc. When you spend time with a person, you can actually say you know that person and have a relationship with them. And the best relationships have friendship as its foundation.  I would recommend that you first spend more time getting to know him, and you might find out why he isn't responding the way you think he should, or you may even find out that he has a lot of other things going on in his life that makes relationships and dating not that important. Just remember that at the end of the day, the most successful relationship, begin as friends, and couples usually have a lot in common. True love is built over time, and infatuation (sometimes called lust) is in a hurry. Decide what type of relationships you want to have. Healthy, or Unhealthy. With L.A.D.Y. Inc Love, LADY Inc Motivator

Why don't you just tell him how you feel? Everyone is scared of rejection, but its better than having a crush for years, and then looking back and wish you would've gotte a yes or no. If its a yes, you can try to build a relationship. If its a no, then you can move on with your life knowing they are missed out on an opportunity to build a relationship with an awesome person!   ~Angelique~

Awww thanks guys you both really helped a lot . I really appreciate it . May God Bless you all and Happy New Year :)